The consequences of committing adultery.

Adultery in marriage is devastating, unbearable and disgusting. Its one of most the challenging situation that can ever happen to anymore whether to a husband or to a wife.

The state of mind goes completely silent and then damn the anger, argument, hatred, tears, lack of trust, unhappiness, separations then divorce.

Why do you think it's compulsory to make your spouses happy. Well I think it should be mutual. Happiness plays a vital role in a relationship/marriage.

When a spouse cheats, the whole world says there is nothing new under the sun just forgive, forget and move on with your life; really is it that easy to overcome cheating in marriages.

You can never know what others are going through except you are in their shoes. Its like losing a parent and your friends try to comfort or console you by saying " take it easy i understand what you are going through" honestly that's ridiculous.

How can you understand what someone is going through when you are not in the same situation with that person.

Marriage is meant to be a beautiful thing and it takes the grace of God. Once you cheat, the love, trust and every other things will be gone within a blink. You can't just cheat then you say sorry or buy expensive gifts.

Cheating causes emotional breakdown and depression and honestly depression is real. Please seek help.